Aside from the obvious topics we've discussed multiple times over like yihud, and bedeken, or even standing, what wedding customs are still being done, but dying out; being imported from other communities, or have already largely been imported? What is different between us and other Sepharadic communities? I saw video clips of a beautiful Ashkenazi wedding, in which a well known rabbi officiated at the huppah of his son. Many typical customs I've seen like flooding the aisle to boisterously sing and dance the couple away from the huppah reminded me of conversations I've had about common customs I don't personally care for and which feel decidely lacking the graviade we cherish. I can't imagine this is the typical custom among Western Sepharadim, but frankly, I have no way to know. Another very Ashkenazi custom is schtick and vigorous, loud, crowded dancing. Are we doing that? How have you managed expectations and group behaviors (autopilot) when most of your guests were Ashkenazi? I've seen programs and heard announcements. What about parading as many rabbis, friends and relatives under the huppah as possible to give out honors? Kabbalat panim? Anything else you can think of? (I've been curious for a long time and have never been to one of our weddings.)